Hello girls, boys, ladies, gents, men, women, and, as the world seems to be slowly including, others. I guess y’all understand that I’m recognising every one of OKpadi’s readers and viewers. Yup. Nobody’s left out.
Again, y’all are welcome to this segment I could have done a better job naming. Before I go on, I just wanna say, you people are stubborn oo. Why have y’all chosen to torture me?
You’ve refused to comment and or get in touch with me. Don’t y’all care about me? Am I not good enough? You’re in somebody else’s DMs innit? You’re shooting shots without being properly educated on the ethics of shot shooting. Well, it’s both an honour and not one to tell you that you will fail big time. Unless you go to school and read, you can’t pass exams. Yes. My analogy implies that whoever it is you’re wooing is an exam. And my posts are the expo.
Now I’m here, once again, basing today’s post on y’alls bad behaviour. Once once, all of you offend your partners just like you have offended me. He/she gets so worked up while you be looking like mumu and saying you didn’t do anything. Yes. I admit, sometimes people(especially girls)be crazy and get mad for little or even no reason at all. It’s stupid, I agree, but sometimes all we want is a little indulgence. We want to see if you can set aside your ego and swallow your pride just make us feel better. So, long story short, we want to hear ‘I’m sorry’. Not because it actually fixes anything or anything needed fixing in the first place, but because it shows you place our happiness above your ego. Saying sorry doesn’t make you less of a person and contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t deflate one’s ego. It actually shows you’re willing to be the better stronger person by sacrificing you for the other person. To me, apologising is the greatest show of strength by a person.
A quick apology also saves you from a lot of drama. And I mean a lot. But like I always tell people.
Don’t just take my word for it. Try for yourself and see. Then come back and thank me later.
I know he/she’s probably mad at you right now. A simple heartfelt ‘I’m sorry’ could be the patch to the crack in the wall that is your relationship. Don’t just say the sorry like an obligation. Mean it. And probably add a little gesture to buttress it.
While you’re apologising to your significant other, don’t forget me. Apologise to me too now now.
I deserve it after all my hard work at keeping your relationships alive. I try for y’all so you should try for me as well.
I’ll be waiting.